Relationship Rules – Don’t “Should” All Over Yourself

How aware are you of what motivates you? Can you really tell the difference between what you are choosing to do and what you think you should do? Who or what told you how you needed to be in the world and relate to others?

While you may not consider yourself politically correct, perhaps you subscribe to an emotional and sexual correctness, which you may not have signed up for. Yet, you may not know how to navigate different conversations or approaches. read more

The Erotic Art Of Veronica Blanco

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We recently encountered Veronica Blanco’s erotic paintings. Veronica is a Toronto-based visual artist concentrating in painting and drawing. Her work is passionately personal, a visual examination of love and relationships. She says she is inspired by personal moments as well as the people around her, and her paintings explore her observations of the intimacy, passion, and struggles between couples. She’s intrigued by the power of the human figure to allure us and the messages found in body language. We enjoyed the sensuality in her paintings and asked her a few questions:

What inspires your artwork?
I’m mainly inspired from personal moments, the people around me, and films. Whichever moment or embrace that interests me, I try my best to depict with paint. I don’t necessarily paint myself in the pieces but instead the figures in my paintings are a representation of all couples. It could be you and your lover or your friends or a couple on the street. I paint them without any facial characteristics in order to keep the Jane Doe and John Doe representation alive.

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Reintroduction – A Sexual Encounter

One of our readers who would like to go by the name of Rudolph Valentino sent us this sexy story. Enjoy!

 

When I first met her she was a Doctor finishing her fourth year of residency, and me… I just worked there. I thought she was gorgeous. Attractive, petite, short, with glasses… fuck… I don’t know what it is about intelligent women who wear glasses. I’ve always had a thing for them. My interactions with her were usually brief; I was more of an observer and admirer from afar. Well, we both sported wedding rings at the time, so that had something to do with it. I also didn’t view myself to be on her level. I moved away and forgot all about her. read more

Premature Ejaculation Myths – 5 Common False Beliefs About Men Who Struggle With Early Ejaculation

Many men who come into my office struggle with ejaculation issues. Premature ejaculation is one of the most common concerns, and there are a few false beliefs I keep hearing. I’d like to set the record straight for anyone considering coming in and provide information for those who do not have access to a therapist. Let’s debunk some premature ejaculation myths:

Myth: Premature ejaculation only affects young men and you will grow out of it as you age. read more

How To Share Your Sexual Fantasies With Your Partner – BetterSexEd Episode 2

Sexual fantasies… we’ve all got them! Yet, just because we all have fantasies doesn’t make it easy to talk about them with a partner.

One of the reasons we seldom talk about fantasies is because they are often taboo and irrational in nature. They are difficult to understand and makes sense of, which makes the “why” around what we find arousing about them hard to explain to others. When we are able to share and discuss what turns us on deep down, however, it can bring us closer to our partners. It can also add another layer of intimacy to the relationship, deepen our appreciation for our partner, and even lead to sexy adventures! read more

What Women Really Want in Bed – How to Truly Seduce Your Lady Part 3 of 3

Have you ever shared your deepest sexual desires with someone? When was the last time you talked about your fantasies with your partner?

In Part I and Part II, we discussed the importance of everyday physical affection and being present in non-sexual interactions – two important habits that keep an intimate connection alive in a long-term relationship. In Part III, we will discuss how to keep your lady in a mental and physical state where she will proactively want to take advantage of the strong intimate connection that you are helping to maintain and explore what really turns her on. read more

All About Penis Size – BetterSexEd Episode 1

Are you curious what experts say about penis size? In our first YouTube episode, we discuss openly how much penis size matters during sex, to women, and to men. This common question often goes unanswered but in our video, you will finally have the answers to commonly asked questions, including, “do women care how large you are?”

Watch and learn the sex positions that will work best for you and what you can do to enhance your partner’s pleasure with whatever size you have. read more

What Women Really Want in Bed – How to Truly Seduce Your Lady Part 2 of 3

In Part I, we discussed the importance of sensual touch in non-erogenous areas (like neck, stomach and thighs) both inside and outside the bedroom. In part II, we’ll discuss the importance of showing up and being fully present on a regular basis – in everyday interactions with your woman. This is a long term game plan.

When Keeley meets with couples who want to be having better sex, she first inquires about their day-to-day experiences with each other to find out more about their emotional connection. Are they open, friendly, loving, kind, generous – vulnerable? Do they feel safe to fully express themselves with one another? Not always, but often times when a couple’s sex life is lacking, they are also struggling to connect on many different relationship levels. read more